I like routines and doing things on a schedule. Maybe it’s a security need to know I’m getting things done. For me, there is LBC(life before cancer) and LAC( life after cancer). Before my diagnosis, I certainly got things done and was homeschooling my son using a Waldorf program. I had lesson plans, monthly blocks of learning, etc. So I was disciplined as such.
But it wasn’t til LAC. when I relapsed in 2010 and even later, that I started Fly lady and began my decluttering in earnest. I don’t remember minimalism as a catchphrase so much back then but I’m sure it was. Over at Minimally-less stuff, Trisha has a great blog on the ongoing process of decluttering. It sometimes, like for me, is a life-altering event to start the decluttering journey or just a phase of life and discovering what works.
But back to trying new things. I like to implement new cooking techniques( the IP, that now I’m not too crazy about), and also new minimalist ideas that I read about. My son jokes with me, though, that I don’t really go out of my comfort zone a lot, and that is true. I guess I feel I did that so much as a young person and it was a bit reckless at times. ( The one year we moved like 6 times, like in a school bus, to a trailer, and so on). Yeah, not to steady. It really wasn’t till our daughter was born that we settled into a routine.
Anyway, this coming week I will be doing something new and that’s staying in the RV alone. It’ll be interesting, to say the least. And it will definitely be out of my comfort zone.
We had a quiet Memorial Day.
My brother died in Viet Nam in 1968 so I thought about him. He was a talented artist. What a waste. He also couldn’t get a deferment even though he had a heart problem and at that time was working full time to support my mother. I guess Donald Trump got the deferment for his bone spurs. I guess he had enough millions to pay off a judge. Well, I guess that tells you something about my brother being killed in Viet Nam and Donald Trump whining about a bone spur.
It was cloudy to start but then eventually the sun came out. We BBQ some burgers and I made some coleslaw. My daughter made us some strawberry shortcakes for dessert later. We generally don’t eat dessert so this was a nice treat.
I didn’t drive to Sacramento and missed seeing B. But I’m going down today and all the rest of the week except Friday. I think my daughter will go on Friday unless her new job starts. Her library interview is next week and this job she is doing is only temporary thru June.
Everything is lining up for us to have the RV. I just ordered some camp chairs as I don’t want to use the owner’s ones for risk of them being stolen or damaged. We needed new ones anyway.
Flylady zone this week was the living room. That’s an easy one for me as it is almost where I want it with functionality and minimalized. I try and do one thing in each zone that’s new or improved. So this time I moved the Ikea cart out and put it in my office area. It holds our wine bottles( which have been reduced to one Chianti, that we don’t drink very often) and we kept our silverware in Ball jars there too. So, I’m going to try it and see if we NEED it back or can the space just be open( white space). I guess we shall see. Right now in my office space, it has a plant on top and that’s it so, that probably isn’t very efficient either.
I’m planning on going to Sac Co-op this morning for veggies and olives from their olive bar. But it kinda depends on my mood as I get closer. Nothing is critical that I need so we’ll see. (How’s that for being indecisive??)
Dinner is chicken enchiladas!
A little departure from Fugal/Five things Friday. Although I may do a separate post on that.
But I was making the bed when it struck me how by becoming more minimalist what it has taught me about myself.
- I know that lots of visual busyness makes me anxious and I need mostly monotones.
- I know I need white space around me to function better. Since our house is very small there aren’t a lot of open places, but there are a few where I just have a plant.
- From even in my 30’s I knew not to ever over schedule or I felt out of control. Even when my children were in school I didn’t over schedule play dates, activities, etc.
- As I’ve decluttered, my house works well for us even though it is quite small.
- For the most part, I know where everything is or where to find it although on occasion I can’t quite remember where I put something. ( I’m looking at you brown envelopes I can’t find)….oops, just found them right where they should be…Ha ha…
- I need a decluttered space with clear surfaces
- I do need a structure(like Flylady) to focus on what the daily chores need to be.
- I function way better without decision fatigue which is why I have a very specific wardrobe and a very limited one. I don’t want to worry about what to wear. I don’t own a dress, skirt or anything dressy.
- Over the years, since discovering less is more, I feel more joy and contentment. Plus since I ‘ve never like to shop it made it easier.
well, as you can see, minimalism really helps to define or really refine who you are.
Well, it is going to be a lovely sunny day so I’m going to enjoy that. Our yard is looking so pretty with daffodils, and the lawns turning bright green. Here’s the flowering cherry which is the prettiest bloom I’ve seen in a few years. Last year these trees were hit with a late frost and all the blooms died.
In the far background you can see some of the hoarders stuff across the fence! More daffodils.
Today is a gym day and B has platelets. I’m going to drop him off and then go over to the gym.
Sunday is sheet day so I’m doing those and since it’s so nice out, I thought I’d do our comforter as well.
There’s not a lot on the agenda for today so I guess that does make it a simple day.
I’m reading a new release in ‘home organizing’ called’The Home Edit’. It’s nicely presented with lovely pictures. So far I’ve gleaned a few ideas about organizing stuff. Nice book, if you’re needing some help putting things together. I’m going to pull everything out of the refrigerator today and give it a good clean.
This week we are in the Entryway, dining room(which we don’t really have) and porches. I’m planning to wash windows sometime this week as well.
We went to town. I went to the gym and then was going to pick B up but he had a reaction(second time) to the platelets. So he had to stay and then they sent him to the ER.
He’s home now and all seems ok.
Dinner is roast chicken.
I’m taking this idea from over at the blog ‘a smaller and simpler life’
written by Sue from Wales. She is a wonderful writer and is truly living what she aspires to be.
I’ve always been an introvert but in my earlier years just ignored what I needed. I don’t do that anymore. I don’t like crowds, parties, concerts etc. It’s just not what I’m interested in.
I am truly in a place where I like being alone/or with B who’s generally outside doing something so I have time to do what I want. When he was traveling for work I had many days where I was alone all day till either my daughter or son came home later in the evening. I was perfectly happy doing my own thing whatever that may have been.
I am embracing this as I get older and don’t feel the need at all to ‘fit’ in.
Having embraced minimalism and loving the simplicity of things, I don’t need to overextend or keep busy. I do my daily routines and enjoy the day. I may work on a project or plan something that might need to be done.
Now that we’re in ‘treatment’ mode, there’s no traveling about and as a matter of fact, I just canceled our spring trip to New Brighton beach because another round of chemo will start. That’s okay because I believe you must live the season you’re in and not fight it. We’ll go traveling again when this is over and it will be delightful.
Sunny again today and about 55 degrees. So not too warm but not too cold. I didn’t walk this morning so I may go out to walk @ 10.
Today, I’m concentrating on figuring out theMedicare part B. Mostly the drug coverage part. I’m planning on calling a few of the insurance companies to figure out the coverage better. Then I downloaded the form for part B and I guess that requires taking it into SS office.
Chores today include a quick swish and swipe of the bathroom, vacuuming, and just tidying up. I’ve been using my timer on my phone to see how long things take to do. It is a good technique if you’re starting out on your decluttering journey to set a time. I do 15-minute increments. Yesterday I ended up doing 2 sessions to get what I wanted to be done.
B has 2 injections at 3pm but he will drive himself as it is just a shot and no Benedryl is required otherwise I’d take him.
Last night I made a low carb chicken enchilada dinner it was pretty good even without the corn tortillas. Plus I made B a Mexican bean burger and it too was very yummy.
Tonight is leftovers, bean burgers, chicken enchiladas, and maybe some salad stuff.
It is rainy, rainy and rainy. The temperature is dropping too. My daughter is planning to work on Tuesday but I think the freeway will be closed and travel to Truckee unlikely. I guess we’ll see.
Today B has platelets and I’m going to go to the gym. This infusion goes relatively quickly.
We got quite a few applications from the Social worker to fill out for assistance such as PGE’s medical rate, handicap placard for when he’s going to the hospital and afterward and an American Cancer one that might have some assistance. We’ll see how any or all of that goes. I’m still planning to do a GoFundme but just haven’t gotten around to it. Based on what the social worker said the month housing will be around $2000. Plus we will have to cover the expenses of the bone marrow retrieval( plane flight, hotels, etc). That’s if there’s a match.
Lots to consider and think about. But one day at a time and one foot in front of the other or just keep walking:)
This week is the kitchen zone and I may start that when I get home from town or I’ll start tomorrow. One thing about simplifying and decluttering, cleaning goes much faster when you have less. I’m still loving the open shelves and love the bright white. Even if and when we do a remodel I would keep open shelving. It makes things more organized since you can see what’s there. The things in the metal bins are organized such as tea, coffee, spices, so I know which one is which. I think it’s working out great and I’d encourage you to try if you’re looking for a change up in your kitchen. Initially, I did freak out and it took 3 coats to paint the shelves but it was worth it.
We don’t have cable so I’m not sure if we’ll find the super bowl to stream but honestly, I don’t even have a clue about the 2 teams. But the ads are always great and quite clever.
Well, off to town in the rain:( I really hate driving in the rain.