Stuff

First, I want to thank a blog reader who made a donation on Buy me a coffee. It’s always such a pleasant surprise to have that happen. So thank you for that. Writing my blog since 2012, so 14 years have been good for me. It keeps me focused, and I can look back at when things did happen. When I started, my main focus was offering information that I found useful concerning Multiple Myeloma. Since I still have Myeloma and am in active treatment, that is still a focus, but not the only one.

Minimalism has played a huge part of my journey and now that “I’m older than that now, ” I can see how much it supports me. I still use Flylady as my weekly focus but really, each zone only takes a small amount of time. Even the kitchen, which is my biggest time factor, I can get through in 30 minutes. I’m still decluttering, and I know I’m close to that sweet spot of having only what is beautiful or useful in the house.

Here’s a good example: I have had the same linen sheets for about 4 years. They are on my bed 7 days a week. When I wash them once a week, they go right back on because I only have the one set. But I also have a linen comforter cover I bought for Rubi, the trailer. But it’s been stuffed in a drawer since I cleaned out the trailer. I kept thinking oh, I can use this for something but really it’s bulky, and I’m not the kind of person to wrestle putting on a cover on a queen-size quilt. So it’s now it’s way to the Goodwill. I don’t want stuff just in case!!

I also write about living a simple life and my love of cooking and reading. Those are so much a part of me. With the biggest part of me, my husband, now gone, I’m still working on living a simple life, but alone. So much of my life, really my whole life since I was married at 18 and left home, has been with him. Now at 73, here I am. I’m slower, and my body is stiffer, that’s for sure, but I still do those things I love. I imagine a time will come when I won’t drive to Roseville to swim, or go to the big gym, or even go much down the hill unless someone is taking me. But that is not this day, and I am very grateful for that.

This week is the bedroom zone, and once again, it’s my nemesis, the closet, that I will straighten out. Otherwise, this zone really takes care of itself since there’s not a lot in there. I think I’ll pull out the steam mop and do the floors. I need to put up the blackout curtains as the sun is now coming directly into that room in the afternoon. It does make a difference.

Well, I’ve rambled on enough. I’m still stressed about my upcoming sleep doctor appointment, but I guess, like everything, I’ll take one day at a time.